As a white wife, married to a much older white husband (he is 57 and I am 40), I went black only seven years ago at the suggestion of my husband. It was the best decision I have ever made. Interracial sex with black men has enriched my life immensely, and improved our marriage. I recommend it to all women who want an exciting and rewarding sex life.
At first my husband screened men and got things started, although I had the final say as to whether I would meet a particular man, and I usually spoke to him on the phone before agreeing. At first my husband was always there to watch and to protect me. Typically we would meet the man at a restaurant or bar, have a drink or two, then go to his place or ours, talk and listen to music for about an hour, and then move upstairs. Usually I took the lead in suggesting we go upstairs when I was comfortable with him. When we brought the man to our house my white husband was there for our first fuck, but usually he would go off to the guest room to sleep and let her our guest spend the night with me; usually that meant several more fucks. I loved being able to get to know these black men in bed all night, at the same time knowing my husband was in the next room if anything went wrong.
As time went by I became more comfortable with coming on to men I met through work, at local parks and at parties, and did not rely on my husband to set things up but began to go on dates. These days most of my sex with black men is after dates, and I meet them on my own and my husband only rarely watches. From the start we agreed that as a white wife, I could fuck as many men as I wanted as long as they were all black; I have never been tempted to take a white lover at all. Interracial sex is my thing, and for me it’s black only!
I have had ongoing relationships with a number of black men that I saw repeatedly. These were mostly casual no strings relationships where we agreed that we enjoyed sex with each other but we all accepted that my marriage was my main emotional relationship. A couple of times it became something more, but I never even considered leaving my white husband even if I was in some sense “in love” with a black lover.
About four years ago I decided to take the next step and be black only, that is to stop having vaginal sex with my husband. I do still have oral sex with him, less and less as time goes on. He accepts this and we both think interracial sex has improved our marriage. I still tell him everything and he gets an enormous thrill hearing about my exploits. As a white wife, I think our sex life is much more exciting and fun this way and recommend this lifestyle to everyone.